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  • A Bed in Coron – Club Paradise Palawan Review

    A Bed in Coron – Club Paradise Palawan Review

    The balloons have deflated, the presents are unwrapped and your shiny new passport has a shiny new surname on it. So what next? Honeymoon! It’s time to escape to paradise. Club Paradise Palawan is a wholly unexpected jewel on the top tip of the Philippine island, Palawan. It is the perfect place for honeymooners and couples. We were lucky enough for it to become our world for three blissful days.

    Wooden signs on a post in the beach reads 'toes in sand' and 'drink in hand'

    Location

    Most travellers know Busuanga Island as the jumping off point for Coron and the islands to the South. However, to the North-East of Busuanga is a small island called Dimiquiat and it is a little slice of heaven. 19 hectares in the middle of a biosphere reserve, around the island is the most magical kind of water; turquoise from afar but crystal clear when you’re in it.

    Turquoise seawater of the Mindoro Strait and the sand of the beach at Club Paradise Palawan, Philippines
    Have you ever seen water like it!?

    The Transfer

    Whether you arrive at Busuanga island by boat or plane, Club Paradise can arrange a transfer. We caught a very, very early morning ferry from El Nido and so it was a welcome treat to arrive at the port and see a guide with our name on a sign. We scrambled in the air-conditioned van and it took us to a small pier on the other side of the island. En route, we got our little welcome gift, a Club Paradise Palawan bracelet.

    If you’re travelling to El Nido, check out LIO Beach – El Nido’s Best Kept Secret

    Banka boat at the pier
    The Banka

    Our boat chugged steadily along the river and then out in the bay, towards the distant island. As it came into view, the excitement on the boat rose. It looked so beautiful.

    Dimakya Island from the boat

    The Arrival

    Stepping off the into the edge of the waves, we got the first sweet squish of sand between our toes.

    Club Paradise Palawan sign on a grey stone wall

    Two staff members handed us a cooling towel and whisked us off to the reception to check in. Within seconds we were sitting, sipping virgin margaritas and listening to a welcome song from the resident band. We felt like complete VIPs.

    Virgin margaritas in champagne flutes on a table
    Who forgot to take a snap before she drank half of it?!

    After we settled into our room, the doorbell rang and two smiling ladies from the housekeeping team were waiting with a collection of strange objects. They asked us to take a seat, and then we were treated to a foot wash, scrub and massage. It was a real unexpected delight.

    Reinvigorated by our tootsie treats, we set off to explore the property. Let us show you around…

    A Look Around the Property

    Design

    The main areas of Club Paradise Palawan are stylish, but not a in stark, clean lines kind of way. Here you will find beach hut chic perfected. Quirky lanterns hang from the ceiling, wooden floors underfoot and mismatched furniture gives a beach side coffee shop feel. The beach is dotted with hammocks and funky wooden signs. It is a colourful slice of island life.

    Rooms

    During our trip, we were staying in a Garden Suite room. This is a new block of standard resort-style rooms a three minute walk from the pool and between the two beaches.

    Exterior of the Garden Suite, Club Paradise Palawan
    Garden Suite Rooms
    Exterior of a sunrise villa, Club Paradise Palawan
    The sunrise villa was set right on Sunrise Beach.
    Our Room

    The room was large and with its tiled floor and air conditioning, felt very open and refreshing. The patio doors serve as the front door and outside you have a small seating/swimwear drying area.

    Inside you find a writing desk, with stationary, a mini bar, and tea and coffee making facilities. The wardrobe has a safe for your valuables, a laundry bag and a bathrobe and slippers for you both.

    a mini bar, tea and coffee making facilities and a fruit bowl
    a panna cotta style dessert in a glass jar and 2 chocolate rum balls and sweet sand with 'Welcome Home' written on a piece of yellow paper
    This is our delicious welcome treat. Rum balls, sweet sand and a panna cotta style dessert.
    A yellow and white striped beach bag, a green tote bag and an A4 folder on a bed
    On arrival you will get a beach bag to use around the resort, a bag to keep, a tiny tube of sun cream and lots of handy info.
    King size bed in Garden Suite, Club Paradise Palawan
    Our giant bed

    The bed was huge, about a third bigger than a standard double. Every night we were treated to a wonderful turn down service. We were always treated to a lovely bit of towel art (no sarcasm, towel art really makes me smile). Along with that, they leave a traditional little Philippine snack. We tried biscuits, ube cake and below are three perfect little fruit tarts. It was a fun little treat for the five o’clock munchies.

    Towel art on a white king size bed
    Once I had a secret love
    a small wooden platter with 3 small fruit tarts
    Bathroom

    The bathroom had a lovely long counter for getting ready. We both managed to use the mirror without annoying each other, or ending up with an elbow to the eye. The toiletries included shampoo, conditioner and even a toothbrush with toothpaste. You can forget your wash bag and you’ll be fine at Club Paradise Palawan. The shower was hot, powerful and we do love a giant rainfall shower head.

    Bathroom vanity unit and sink, Garden Suite Club Paradise Palawan
    white lotion dispenser, wrapped shower caps and toothbrushes, Garden Suite, Club Paradise Palawan
    Little bathroom freebies make me squeal
    Rainfall shower, Garden Suite, Club Paradise Palawan
    Dining

    The one restaurant on the resort is Fire Fish. Here you will find a daily breakfast buffet 06:00 – 10:00am.

    From 12:30pm it turns into an à la carte restaurant. There is only one menu, but it has foods from all over the world to keep things interesting. We had traditional Filipino dishes, Italian pasta and a pool side classic; a club sandwich and chips.

    bowls of garlic rice, adobo and spicy curry on a white rattan table
    Garlic rice, adobo and delicious spicy curry
    mango cheescake topped with slices of mango, aside balls of mango sorbet and a maraschino cherry
    The mango, mango, mango cheesecake was so, so, so good!
    The Residents

    During your time at Club Paradise Palawan, you may get to meet some of its more unusual guests. The most obvious ones are the resident colony of fruit bats. They hang out in the trees near the pool and every night, they put on a spectacular show at sunset. The whole camp of bats heads off to the mainland in search of food.

    fruit bats hanging in trees
    The fruit bats
    Fruit bats flying below the clouds at sunset
    Off they go for dinner

    Elsewhere on the island you may bump into a monitor lizard cooling off in the lagoon, a butterfly flitting across the path or an aquarium worth of fish on the house reef.

    Black-naped oriole bird sitting on a branch
    This Black-naped oriole sang beautifully
    a monitor lizard in a lake
    A monitor lizard taking a dip

    Activities Around the Resort

    For Couples Who Want to Relax

    The Spa

    For a thorough rub down, or a serious dose of relaxation, head to the Glow Spa. Open all day until 23:00, the therapists are ready to provide a great list of massage options. After debating it for a day we opted for the Gentleman’s Package for Mr Fluskey (a 40 min massage and express facial) and a full 60 min massage and 40 min facial for Mrs Fluskey.

    The treatments were performed in two adjacent beds. The staff just pulled the curtain back so it felt like we were in one treatment room. This means that you can pick anything on the menu and they will treat it as a couples massage.

    Glow Spa logo and sign with bushes and flowers in the foreground, Club Paradise Palawan

    The staff couldn’t have been more professional. They checked the pressure for each of us and made sure we were as comfortable as possible. My facial used a gentle scrub and then a tea tree infused lotion. It smelt great! The full body massage was just the right level of intensity. It wasn’t too gentle (sleepy territory) or too hard (grimace into the pillow territory). They found my tense spots, going at my knotted shoulders until they started to give. I loved every minute of it.

    The Pool

    My absolute favourite activity in the resort was to stretch out on the one of the super comfortable poolside beds and listen to the waves on the beach behind me.

    Blue sun loungers under a white parasol by the beach under the shade of the trees
    Pink sunglasses, striped bikini bag and white and yellow rattan bag on a blue and white striped towel
    My resort beach bag, Club Paradise beach towel and my favourite bikini bag – Loving all the stripes!
    swimming pool area, blue sun loungers and white parasols at Club Paradise Palawan

    The pool was split into two parts. One was deep enough to swim in properly and was just long enough to use as a lap pool. The other area had fountains and submerged sunbeds. I love submerged sunbeds, they are a fabulously refreshing alternative. This part had quite a few kids in it later in the day but it seemed to be a grown up haven earlier on.

    swimming pool and palm roof bar with trees behind at Club Paradise Palawan
    swimming pool with an inflatable swan. In the background blue sun loungers and white parasols in front of trees at Club Paradise Palawan
    Pool inflatables; still trending!
    The Beaches
    footprints in the sandy beach next to the blue South China Sea
    Take only photos, leave only footprints

    The main beach at Club Paradise Palawan is a 700 metre stretch of perfect golden sand. It faces West and so the sun graces it for most of the day. It is a wonderful place to bronze all afternoon, and enjoy a sundowner cocktail in the evening.

    a hammock under a palm roofed pagoda on the white sand beach at Club Paradise Palawan
    Rosie's legs on a rattan hammock on the white sandy beach with the South China sea in the background

    With so much space, you will be able to find a private spot really easily. Whether you want to lounge in the shade of a hammock,  laze on a sunbed or build a sandcastle, you will find yourself a secluded spot. There are showers and foot wash stations to avoid spreading the sand all across the resort.

    sun loungers in front of a tree on the sandy beach of the South China Sea
    That’s six sunbeds you wont have to fight for!
    Secret Beach

    Do a little exploring and you will find your very own spot. Secret Beach gets the morning sun. It is more natural than the main beach, a rough and ready spot.

    a view from high up of the tree lined Secret Beach on Dimakya Island
    I found Secret Beach!

    For Couples Who Want to be Active

    Obstacle Course

    If you are feeling adventurous, you can play Tarzan on the resort’s own rope course. There are steps, swings, nets and tightropes to tackle. We ran out of time try it, which I was truly gutted about. It looked like it was great fun!

    a rope course suspended between trees including nets and tire swings

    Check out all our travels in The Philippines

    Hiking Trail

    To get a wonderful 360 view of the island, especially for sunset, you can take the 30 minute hike up to Eagle Point. The path varies in difficulty on the way up. If you are running out of puff, you aren’t far from an easier section.

    The final ascent is up some concrete steps. They don’t seem too steep on the way up, but do on the way down. I climbed down backwards which made it much easier.

    Check out the views from the top of the tower:

    Water Sports

    Remember that reef I mentioned? Well, that is where you can start your exploration of the waters surrounding the island. The Aquasports office by the pool will lend you a snorkel and fins for a snorkelling trip. They can provide a guide if you are feeling a little unsure. We opted to do it ourselves and waded into the waves. We swam for two minutes and found the edge of the house reef. It was teeming with life and we saw fish galore! There were fish of all colours and a nice variety of corals. We even saw a completely harmless but awfully exciting black tip reef shark. It would be the day that our GoPro decided to stop working!

    Next door is the Dugong dive shop. They can arrange dives at all the famous wrecks around Coron as well as great nature spots. They told us that most of the dives they do are for those guests who haven’t tried it before, but you can do leisure dives, dive qualifications and amazing adventure dives with them. We decided to do the island tour instead of scuba diving, but the night dives on the house reef sounded very cool.

    For Couples Who Want Romance

    Dinner For Two

    You can arrange a special dinner down on the beach. We were lucky enough to try out this experience and it was a wonderful treat. There is a weekly dinner on the beach but this is just for the two of you and is so romantic with the sound of the waves lapping just a metre from your table.

    2 chairs and a table under 2 white lanterns on the white sand beach by the South China Sea at Club Paradise Palawan

    We had our own waiter and they couldn’t have been more helpful. I mentioned that it was going to be my birthday in a couple of days, and they even bought me a little cake, and the house band(!) to sing happy birthday.

    chocolate sponge cake with 'Happy Birthday' written in red icing on the edge of the white plate

    Speaking of the great service…

    The Service

    The staff at Club Paradise Palawan could not have been nicer. Every interaction we had was friendly, polite and made us feel special. Justin at the front desk told us all about the resorts facilities and how to get the most out of our stay. He showed us all the way to our room and was extremely cheerful. Mr Escobar, the resort manager was out every evening to speak with the guests and check that everything was perfect. I was amazed at the personal touch. It made us feel like VIPs.

    Weddings

    During our stay, we saw a wedding taking place. The ceremony was set up right on the sand and I had to go and have a look.

    I loved the little details that had been set up. It had a real sense of tropical magic. We watched it from afar and everyone seemed to enjoy the day. It must be a really special place to get hitched (and at a fraction of the cost of a similar ceremony in the Caribbean!)

    Check out our our Review of Air Juan from Coron Airport (USU)

    Final Thoughts

    We had a truly wonderful time at Club Paradise Palawan. We have been to a few fancy resorts, but the staff here made us feel so incredibly welcome, that it felt like we were meant to be there.

    If you thinking of visiting, here are some things you might like to know:

    • Busuanga airport has flights from Manila, Cebu, and Angeles City, as well as smaller flights from other islands (You can read all about our flight with Air Juan to Boracay)
    • Busuanga can also be reached by ferry if you are coming from El Nido. The fast ferry takes about 4 hours and can be booked here.
    • Booking directly with Club Paradise Palawan saves you money on day tours, spa treatments and desserts during your stay.
    • If you have room in your suitcase, I am coming with you.

    We were hosted by Club Paradise Palawan but we had a genuinely wonderful time and as always, all opinions are my own.

    Rosie xx

  • Tips for Backpacking as a Couple

    Tips for Backpacking as a Couple

    I have been in a relationship with Mr Fluskey for an unmentionable number of years. We quickly discovered that we were great travel buddies and encouraged each other to adventure more. Since then we have spent lots of time on the road together and learnt a lot about what it means to be a couple that travels. It isn’t always good, it isn’t always bad, read on to find out the highs and lows of backpacking as a couple and our top tips for enjoying you travels together too…

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    If I am going to endeavour to share everything about being a twosome abroad, it would be an dreadful fallacy to tell you that it is all good all the time. Let’s start with the cons and get them out of the way.

    The Cons of Backpacking as a Couple

    The Couple Bubble

    Some people aren’t all that interested in getting to know couples. Groups of single friends don’t really have anything to gain from hanging out with you, and some people think they are interrupting if they get in between the two of you. It can really be tricky to break the couple bubble.

    TIP: We found that approaching other people broke the barrier much more quickly. Plus (and this might sound odd) but letting them know that you are “basically an old married couple” helps them relax. They are much more likely to hang out if they know you are slightly sick of each other than with a fawning honeymoon couple.

    Question Time

    How long have you been together?…. Oooooh.

    Are you married? ….. Why not?

    Do you have children? …… Why not?

    OK, so we are married now, but for ten long years we travelled together as boyfriend and girlfriend. Throughout Asia, there were always questions about why we weren’t married and when we were going to make babies. It was a little uncomfortable sometimes. Luckily, my other half didn’t scare easily! To be fair, now that we are hitched, the questions about babies still come from perfect strangers but I am much more confident about explaining that isn’t in the plan.

    TIP: Sometimes it is easy enough to laugh things off but it can be even easier to wear a pretend wedding ring each.

    The Compromise

    The main joy of travelling solo is doing what you want, when you want. Add another person into that equation and you immediately need to compromise. This isn’t really a problem but it does lead to many a dull conversation where you need to choose where to eat, what to see next etc, etc, etc.

    Then there are the times that you really want to try an activity, let’s say it’s whitewater rafting (check out when we went Kayaking the Köprüçay River with Novaraft in Turkey), and the other person doesn’t want to. Sure you could go off and do it by yourself but that’s not why you came on holiday with your significant other; it was to spend time together. If you find things you both enjoy, you are on to a winner!

    TIP: Set expectations early for any big activities or sights you want to partake in. This stops a last-minute argument and/or gives you time to work out how it works best for you both.

    The Arguments

    Heat, alcohol, exhaustion…this can only end well.

    We don’t often argue at home but our drunken arguments on holiday are a sight to behold. Unlike an argument with a friend, you have a whole extra suitcase full of past bitterness and grudges to throw at your partner. The rows are big and brash, releasing days of tension and frustration at probably the whole world. When you are on a budget and have to constantly count the pennies, it can feel frustrating or unfair and this is easily projected onto others…including your partner.

    Some of our biggest travelling tiffs include the time I slept on a hostel sofa because I had drunkenly convinced myself that Mr Fluskey had locked me out during a screaming row. I wasn’t even drunk at the Full Moon Party on Koh Phangnan in Thailand when I spent two hours crying on Skype to my parents. I HAD drunk six Thai Redbulls however so I was caffeinated to the eyeballs. Oh, and the classic time that I stormed off to a bar by myself….we aren’t proud of these moments, but they happen to everyone.

    TIP: The only thing you can do when you have a real blowout whilst backpacking as a couple is to try to sleep and reset in the morning. Once you’ve both had a bit of time to think on it…or sober up, you can sit and have a grown up conversation about what happened. Learn when the sparks are starting to fly and make it bedtime.

    Only joking, he didn’t really try and kill us in a dune buggy

    Have I bummed you out? Don’t worry, it’s time to look at the good stuff!

    The Pros of Backpacking as a Couple

    The Seat Lottery

    The joy of knowing that you will be sitting next to your significant other cannot be underestimated. Let’s take a plane as a small example. Do you:

    • A – Take the window seat and have to awkwardly climb over a stranger every time you need the toilet.
    • B – Take the aisle and get a terrible sleep because you have to sit up straight to avoid getting banged by the cart/people en route to the toilet. Or worse, drool on your new seat buddy!

    Being one half of a couple means always having a seat buddy that you can lean on, chat to, share snacks with and not have to apologise to every time you accidentally brush them with your hand/elbow/knee.

    The Bathroom Breather

    Have you used a squat toilet whilst wearing a backpack and day pack because the floor is too disgusting to put your bags down? Even just getting your shorts down your legs is a challenge. Trust me, when you really need a wee, it’s torture! Then there are the toilet cubicles that are too tight fr you and your backpack, or have big gaps that would leave your gear open to theft (I’m looking at you USA).

    Luckily, backpacking as a couple, you can take turns going to the bathroom whilst your other half watches the bags. You can enjoy the moment of bagless bladder release without any stress or worry that you’ll topple over into the squatty potty.

    The Joy of Sharing

    Meal Times

    Staring at a menu, I am often thrown into a dilemma between two (or five) delicious-looking dishes. Happily, when you are travelling as a couple, you will be sitting opposite someone who you may be able to convince to split his meal with you. If you are wily, you can convince them to get the other dish you want, and you can both try all of it. Win/Win! Plus, if you think you are too full for dessert, you can “share” one.

    Half Price

    How great is it to know that the cost of every taxi and every private room will automatically be shared between two. I think travelling as a couple is much cheaper as a default.  Budget travel is a very happy result!

    Check out 10 Things You Need to Know About Budget Travel

    The Conversation Default

    Travelling solo can be lonely. Sometimes you just want to talk to someone. By that, I mean really talk and not just make small talk with someone new. It’s nice that that I can always turn to Mr Fluskey and go “Wow, isn’t this amazeballs!” I don’t think random strangers would always react so kindly to my random outbursts.

    You will also love that your trips give you the space from the everyday nonsense to step back and evaluate where you are as a couple. Some of our biggest “life talks” have taken place on the other side of the world. Travel is often the catalyst for self-reflection and you will find that the conversation, given the time and space away from the mundane, is allowed to be deep and take in your whole lives back home in a more holistic manner.

    The Silent Sharer

    So I realise that the above pro points can all refer to travelling with a friend too, but I think this one is slightly different.

    Warning : Mushy words up ahead!

    Sometimes, with a partner you can share an experience in total silence but somehow you know you’re there with someone who knows exactly what you’re thinking. A little handhold is all it takes. This may even be too mushy for me….

    The Bodyguard/Nurse/Parent/Friend

    Being away can be hard sometimes. Very rarely would you put yourself through 16 hour coach rides at home that play loud music, or share a room with 8 other snuffling, sleeping people.

    We once did a trek that started at midnight. We sat, waiting until 02:00 wondering what was going on, and THEN we began the walk. The lack of sleep and my lack of fitness led to a minor meltdown halfway up. “Leave me here and pick me up on the way back down”, I wailed. I don’t think I would have made it up to the top without Mr Fluskey who coaxed, ordered, and supported me up to the summit.

    We’ve both had to support each other at different times throughout our travels; I believe our roles are always evolving. From dragging the other one from a drunken heap to protecting them from unwanted advances. Even just to being someone to grin stupidly at at an inappropriate moment, we are always there for each other. We’ve put each other through the wringer, but luckily, being part of a couple means never leaving each other behind!

    Final Thoughts About Backpacking as a Couple

    Don’t let all those perfectly taken Instagram shots of hearts in front of sunsets fool you. Backpacking as a couple has its good bits and its bad bits. As long as there are more good bits, you’ve found a travel buddy for life!

    Rosie xx